A man just showed up in the mentions of somebody I follow and said "a third party you don't even know about expressed nuance about this idea and nuance is bad, because decisions should be black or white and you should take responsibility." The person he was directing the mention to was not taking about nuance, and is not responsible for the decision being made.
Don't be that man. Please. There are several layers of not being that man you should aspire to.
